How to cope with female infertility issues

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    HI, ladies! I am a woman from Las Vegas. I am 33 years old and I married 3 years ago. I am trying to conceive from the last 3 years but I am still not getting the results. I really want to change my life and want to get pregnant.

    I am going from forum to forum to figure out everything about infertility issues and why I am facing it. 15% women are facing the same issue I am facing. I have been reading the stories of many women and how they faced the issue. It is incredible many ladies made it and got pregnant.

    Is this really possible for me? I have been trying to get out of it by getting some clarity. Let me tell you that It really fucking bad. I am losing my emotions and I am losing everything because of that.

    What should I do?

    08/12/2017 at 10:58 am
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    Sandra F.
    Fertility Counselor

    Dear Sofiawest,

    If you are trying to conceive with no luck, the most advisable for you to do now is to visit a fertility specialist so that they run some tests on you to see what is causing it. Your husband should do the same because, according to your explanation, you still don’t know what is preventing you from getting pregnant – it might be due to female infertility issues, male infertility issues, or both.

    Recommended for you: Female sterility: definition, causes, signs and treatment.

    I hope this helps,

    Best wishes!

    08/30/2017 at 8:35 am
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    HI Sandra,

    Thank you for the support.

    I have been working on it. I have never visited a fertility expert. I will surely visit the nearest fertility expert. I am feeling like we both have infertility issues. Real cause is still unknown.

    09/21/2017 at 8:27 am
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    Jasmine Flower

    Hi sofia! It is very heart breaking to know about your infertility issue. Let me tell you sofia that about 20% of the women are facing this issue and i am also one of them. It’s been years that I have been trying to get pregnant. The reason for my infertility issue is that I have a heart disease due to which I can not I have my own baby. It’s the worst feeling in the world that you cannot complete your family even if you have tried a lot and with dedication. After when i was not getting pregnant in the first 2 years, I went for a proper medical checkup. After that medical checkup I came to know that I am having a hard disease due to which I am facing Infertility issue. It was very difficult for me to cope with the situation at that time because it is a serious disease. I don’t know how much time will it take to get cured. That is why first of all I suggest that you should have a proper medical checkup to know the reason behind the infertility issue. I hope you will be perfectly alright. Then go for a proper treatment. I have visited a few gynecologists and I had different treatments. Nowadays, i am having a proper treatment from a gynecologist. I am trying my best to do something because life feels very empty and hard. But I have never lost my strength and believe. I will carry on the struggle. So I also suggest you that you boost up your moral and then you will be able to do something for yourself. I hope your partner understands your problem and is with you. He is your strength. Discuss things with him. Consult different gynecologists and then go for the proper treatment. I pray for for you that you get a bay soon because I know how hard is it to face such a problem. I hope you will find this reply helpful. Be strong and stay happy. things will change.

    09/26/2017 at 8:36 am
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    Don’t lose your hope. Believe that you still have a chance to conceive. I know you are worried that you didn’t succeed yet. Try to visit a specialst. There are clinics that are specialized for infertility issues. There are many treatments nowdays. I am sure that there is one that can help you. Hope you will find it.

    10/08/2017 at 1:53 pm
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    Hi friend, looks like you are in a real hurry to get pregnant. Well getting pregnant can be difficult for some couples and can be easy for some of them. Sometimes getting pregnant can deal with emotions, genes and also the situation in which the individuals are living. I know there must be a way to cope up with you TTC for 3 years, I will suggest you to visit your doctor and seek for her advice. She’s an expert and will definitely recommend you the best way. Some women faced the issue and opted for adoption in order to fulfill their vision of becoming a mother whereas some elected the other methods of gaining fertility like IVF, IUI or surrogacy. I think you are still not sure what problem you are going through. You should get a check-up of your ovaries and a proper analysis of your husband’s sperm count also. Keep calm and believe in fate, what’s planned for you is way better what you perceive it to be. One of my friend’s recently went through this issue, she underwent surrogacy and her baby is due next month. Life has again become meaningful again for her. If you can’t deal with emotions, consult a psychologist, she/he will definitely prescribe you some mind relaxation practices.

    01/24/2018 at 11:25 am
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    I would say be positive and visit well known Infertility hospital. Where specialist doctors will guide you regarding infertility issues and how to deal with that. With the changing lifestyle infertility is increasing in couples, so to deal with that you need to do regular exercise, proper diet, good sleep. This will help to improve fertility in women.

    01/29/2018 at 11:56 am
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    Haley Brown

    I don’t think this is the right place to get your answers. Sure, we can all tell our experience. However, only a specialist can diagnose any underlying causes of not being able to conceive. You will probably need to go through some medical tests. So will your husband. Once you can determine what the cause is, you can then decide to continue TTC with treatment, or opt for IVF. Don’t lose hope, because you have options.

    03/23/2018 at 6:20 pm
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    Shivani Bhutani

    Female infertility issues can be greatly eliminated with advanced IVF techniques. Consult with the best Gynaecologist and discuss your infertility causes.

    07/17/2018 at 1:51 pm
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    Angelie Brown

    Dont lose hope!!  Get yourself along to a specialist who recognises more challenging issues.  I was under a dr-professor at abroad fertility clinic who has been the most delightful, caring & patient woman.  Rest assured it will happen. Keep your exercise up, weight down (if needed) & your diet in tact.  Eat your protein first, veges second & if enough room carbs. I wish you well in your quest & hope that one day soon that you too will experience the joys & wonderous facets of pregnancy. 

    07/24/2018 at 12:57 pm
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